Sometimes the smartest financial move is drawing a hard line. When you are resetting your finances, what you resist doing can matter just as much as what you commit to doing.
According to Tyler Gardner, a financial strategist at Social Cap Connect, setting firm boundaries is essential.
1. Resist overcomplicating your portfolio
Complexity can make a portfolio harder to monitor and tougher to stick with when markets dip. If you cannot clearly explain what you own and why, that is a red flag.
A simpler strategy — often built on low-cost index funds — may be easier to maintain and could reduce costly mistakes. Insecurity often masquerades as complexity; a reset is the perfect time to strip away the noise and focus on what you actually understand.
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offers a free service that matches you to a vetted, fiduciary advisor in less than five minutes.2. Resist spending money just for tax deductions
A deduction lowers a tax bill, but it does not erase the cost. Spending $1 to save a fraction of that in taxes rarely strengthens your finances. Every dollar spent unnecessarily is still a dollar leaving your net worth.
Before making any purchase for tax reasons, ask whether it supports your broader goals. If you would not buy it without the tax incentive, it might not belong in your plan. The best tax strategy is often simply not spending money on things you do not need.
3. Resist saving or investing without a mission
Saving out of habit can feel responsible, but money without a mission often leads to frustration. You may end up with sizable balances and no clear idea of what they are meant to fund. This lack of direction can make it feel like no amount is ever enough.
Define what the savings are for. Income security, travel, helping family or flexibility in retirement all require different strategies. When you name the outcome — whether it is autonomy or memory-making — the math becomes a tool for your life rather than just a growing number on a statement.
4. Resist paying off low-interest debt early
For many Americans, eliminating debt feels like the ultimate milestone. Yet not all debt carries the same weight. If an interest rate is relatively modest — like a fixed-rate mortgage from a few years ago — aggressively paying it down might limit the ability to invest or build liquidity.
A reset is an opportunity to evaluate trade-offs rather than follow blanket rules. If you can earn more in a money market fund than you are paying in interest, the opportunity cost of paying off that debt is real. Sometimes, math should trump the emotional desire for a zero balance.
5. Resist keeping your cash solely in high-yield savings accounts
Cash plays an important role in emergency planning, but keeping too much in savings for too long may expose you to inflation risk. Purchasing power can quietly erode over time, especially when bank rates are subject to change without notice.
For funds you will not need soon, diversified investments or short-term bonds may offer greater growth potential. While high-yield accounts are fine for temporary parking, they are not long-term wealth builders. A firm reset means knowing where cash ends and investments begin.
Protecting your priorities
Gardner’s central message is not about copying specific choices, but about deciding what you will no longer do simply because everyone says you should.
That clarity can be powerful when you are refining a long-term strategy. A firm list of what to resist may help you protect your priorities and build a strategy that fits your life, not someone else’s.
